iyanla vanzant

“ You can accept or reject the way you are treated...Until you heal the wounds of your past, you will continue to bleed. ”

“ Pain is pain, hurt is hurt, fear is fear, anger is anger, and it has no color. ”

“ Healing is the application of love. ”

“ A change of perspective may be all it takes to transform a painful experience into a powerful growth experience. ”

“ You can't just cry about the pain...pray about the pain. You must eliminate the pain. ”

“ You can never love anyone to your own detriment. That is not love, that is possession, control, fear, or a combination of them all. ”

“ You've got to be willing to lose everything to gain yourself. ”

“ The only way to get what you really want is to let go of what you don't want. ”

“ We're all in prison...but some of us have a key. ”

“ Love is always present, surrounding us. ”